Saturday, June 26, 2010

SO I have a few minutes...

Life is so crazy & never slows down, not even for a minute. The boys have been out of school for the summer now for 3 weeks and although they are loving it, the routine (what little one we had) went right out the window with the books, homework and classrooms. I don't think my boys have bathed in a week and they have forgotten how to do chores.

But, they are happy and I am glad for that. They are attending a community school this summer and love it. They are with a BUNCH of their friends and all they do all day long is play. Every Monday, Kenny gets to go swimming at the municipal pool and he loves that he gets to ride a school bus. Kale has cooking class every day and is learning to play tennis (or at least is claiming to). They come home really tired and that's OK with me too!

About 3 months ago, we met with and applied to become foster parents with an agency in town called Olive Crest. They are a christian based agency and of all the ones we have been looking at over the last 2 -3 years, they seemed the best fit for our family. However, they only accept about 50 new families a year and their process is much more rigorous then the County's process. We were accepted into the agency about 2 months ago and are about 1/2 way through the training and paperwork phase.

We hope to be licensed sometime this fall and have children (2-4) in our home by the first of 2011. We are really excited and feel great about all that is going on. This has added to the chaos though, as we are in training 2 - 3 nights a week and 1-2 Saturdays a month. We are also making all the necessary adjustments and upgrades to the house that are required. That alone is a full-time job.

But - WE ARE LOVING LIFE AND WE ARE HAPPY. Kenneth is finally working again and although the first few weeks have been a bit nuts with swing shifts, graveyard shifts, unpredictable schedules, and some up and down in the hours, it looks like he has proven himself useful and will be working 34-40 hours every week going forward. This makes him very happy and if he is happy, I am happy and if I am happy, the rest of the family is happy!

We have truly been blessed these last 9 months. Although our financial struggles have been the cause of many sleepless nights and some tears and a great amount of worry; we have made it through and come out on the other end stronger, smarter and happier. I have gained a very strong testimony that the Lord does know us and he gives us what we need. Much of what he has given us has not been what we thought we needed, but looking back, we have grown closer as spouses and family, friends have come into our lives that wouldn't have otherwise and we have learned to serve and be served. Waiting on the Lord is never easy, but he always comes through.

I don't know if anyone else would agree with me, but my faith has been strengthened and I don't worry as much anymore. I have learned to do what I am asked and have patience and faith and I have seen it all work out.

Off to Bountiful Baskets (a story for another day). Remember to Live for yourself and others, Love like it was your last day on earth, and Laugh more then you Cry!!

2 comments:

  1. Hi, my name is Bonnie :) I found your blog while looking for other mommy blogs in Vegas. Your boys are so cute! I just had a little boy in December (my first). I'm glad things are getting better for ya'll. You can never predict life & how hard it will be at times. Anyways, I just thought I would post a comment & say "HI"!

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  2. So excited for all the GOOD things happening in your life right now. Congratulations on the Foster Care developments. That's really exciting. We will look forward to welcoming others into the family.
    Hugs to the boys!

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